Every Tragedy is a Gift

there's this boy who I've always talked to last year, and we were so close that people actually thought we were a couple or 'shipped' us together. But this year, we barely talk. It's like he's ignoring me. Every time I try to get close to him, he never acknowledges my existence. Most of the time, I don't have any way of talking to him because he is in none of my classes and his locker is on the other side of the hall. I don't want to seem clingy or anything, but what should I do? I miss him.

Sat, 16 Mar 2013 17:20:17 -0700

Maybe you should text him or leave him a note inside his locker. Give him the effort and see what he does. If he still doesn’t care, then just move on :)

I have this friend who's a boy and I like him ALOT which is unusual for me because I don't get crushes but he talks to me, includes me in his little 'group', hugs me, etc. I thought he liked me but he also does this with many other girls.. Advice on how to figure out?

Sat, 16 Mar 2013 17:19:30 -0700

Ask him. Or hang out with him, alone, more to see how he acts with you. I’m pretty sure he likes you but you’ll never know unless you ask :)

I'm really struggling with self loathing. Any advice?

Sat, 16 Mar 2013 17:18:47 -0700

I know a lot of people self loath all the time. And it’s normal. But it shouldn’t be. You are a person. A beautiful human being who was born in this world for a purpose. A purpose to be unique, and learning your talents and using them to create something awesome. You shouldn’t be disgusted of your flaws, your body, your face, your eyes, your arms, your legs, your weight. NOTHING. It’s all what makes you, you. So don’t put yourself down, tell yourself at least one compliment everyday and you’ll have self confidence in no time :D

do you know what's a good site for picture editing?

Sat, 16 Mar 2013 17:16:40 -0700

idk where you can edit online but I know if you search through tumblr for a free download of photoshop cs5 you’ll definitely get that :D

Any ways to get rid of dry skin ?

Tue, 19 Feb 2013 18:04:04 -0800

Mm, moisturizer, lotion. I don’t really know any remedies that make your skin softer. Maybe look online :D

i have this friend who's a guy and i've known him for 10 years. ppl always thought we liked eachother and we always denied it. Recently i was feeling that it may be true. In class today, some girls dared him to ask me out as a joke in front of the whole class, and i just laughed it off but i was mortified and i dunno what to do

Fri, 08 Feb 2013 18:52:30 -0800

Maybe you should definitely talk to him about it! Maybe he likes you too. But just see how he feels if you ever asked him out. If he feels disgusted about that idea, maybe it’s best to not tell him how you feel.

(C) He knows that it bothers me. But he keeps doing it. I just.. ugh. Idk what to do with him anymore. I'm pissed off. idek what to say right now. ok venting cos no one else knows about him. thank you xx

Fri, 08 Feb 2013 18:51:34 -0800

Just don’t let it get to you and maybe try to move on. Guys who flirt with a lot of girls don’t have time or patience to commit to one girl so they just jump around. Move on from that. You don’t deserve to be hurt. Yeah he may like you, but he probably doesn’t see you as his number one girl. I know that’s a little harsh to say but it’s a good way to show you that you deserve way better than what he’s giving you. :)

I just got cheated on and it makes me feel pretty fucking shitty about myself.

Fri, 08 Feb 2013 18:48:27 -0800

It is a pretty shitty feeling. But you live, you learn and move on from that. They just proved to you that they are not worthy of having real love and they are just afraid of committing to one person. So just learn from this experience. No tears. :)

Hi, a year ago my bestfriend told me he was in love with me and I felt so bad bc i dont feel the same way although i love him so much. Everything seemed fine but hes always telling me that he loves me and its a bit awkward for me bc i cant say the same and we argue a lot bc of this. What do i do?

Fri, 08 Feb 2013 18:47:38 -0800

Just tell him that you love him, but you’re not in love with him and you’re sorry but you just can’t force feelings like that upon yourself. He should understand :)

hi :3 i want to lose some weight, because i'm very uncomfortable with my body. as much as i would like to be able to do this on my own, i've tried and i know that i just can't seem to do it. i think i'm going to tell my parents, and ask them if they could help me out/give me any tips.. but i'm sort of embarrassed and i have no idea how/what to ask them.. any advice?

Fri, 08 Feb 2013 18:45:57 -0800

Don’t be embarrassed about it :D Just say ‘hey mom and dad, I was wondering if you could help me out with exercising or some working out routines. i was thinking about trying to get into better shape or become more fit.’ or something along those lines. c:

I've known this guy for almost a year and I had crush on him, but now he has new girl, but his new girl is rude and his mother hates her. After a while his mom and I have been talking and wished that I dated her son. The problem is that I had a crush on this one guy who is really not boyfriend material. After thinking for awhile I think I was somewhat in love with guy Ive known for year. What i'm asking if they breakup should I go after him even though I believe that he might not like me back?

Fri, 08 Feb 2013 18:38:51 -0800

Mm, well if you truly want him you should get him! You should definitely hang out with him and try to get closer to him first but if you like him, there’s always a chance he’ll like you back! :)

hey. so im in like a complicated realtionship with this guy and its kind of sexual, but we're not actually in an exclusive relationship. he actually has a girlfriend, but we both really like each other. he knows how i feel and he feels the same way too. i just dont really know whats going on and where we stand and where things are going in the future. well anyway, weve been like this for like 2 or 3 years. do u maybe know if things will work themselves out or whats gonna happen in the future?

Fri, 08 Feb 2013 18:36:52 -0800

Honestly, steer clear from relationships like that. I know how fun it can be to flirt and do things with guys who want it just as much as you do. But TRUST ME. You want to do that with a guy you’re in an ACTUAL relationship with. None of you are cheating, you guys have fun together and can pleasure each other without the guilt. Just try your hardest to steer clear from that because karma is definitely a bitch and it’ll come back to bite you.

Okay so I'm a sophomore in high school and I'm freaking out! It's so much harder than last year! They've recently changed the schedule from last year (used to be 4 classes a day now it's 6) and I have tons of homework every night and I'm not even taking AP classes! I have Fs in 2 of my classes! I don't know lately I've just felt so stupid and ignorant and I feel like dropping out :( I know it's stupid to think like that but I just wanna know if you have any advice for me?

Fri, 08 Feb 2013 18:35:15 -0800

Don’t worry, I had some trouble in the early years of high school. But it gets easier when you study and determine to try harder in classes to get A’s. Don’t stress. It’ll get easier! :)

My best friend is a cutter. I found out around summer of last year when she told me. She's been doing better lately because she's got a new boyfriend. But I'm scared. She really likes him and I knew that she easily falls for guys. I've never net him so I don't know him but I'm scared that they might break up and she'll go back to cutting. I just don't want her to go back to that.

Fri, 08 Feb 2013 18:34:17 -0800

Just be there for her. Don’t tell her what to do or not to do or else she’ll do it. Just encourage her to be strong every time she has the urge to cut. If it’s a serious problem and she doesn’t listen to you, go to her parents or people she will listen to. But overall, be there for her when she needs it.

I'm falling hard for my guy friend.I desperately want to tell him. But I don't know how..help?

Fri, 08 Feb 2013 18:32:58 -0800

Tell him! Most girls fall for their best guy friends and their best guy friends most likely like them back! So you can just tell him how you feel or ask him how he would feel if you told him you had feelings for him. :)

I dont want to be annoying and its just not the same if i try to start a conversation with him, so i just dont know what to do

Fri, 08 Feb 2013 18:31:59 -0800

Well, you just have to realize that you did him some wrong and you weren’t as grateful for him as you should have been. But just give him some space for now. He’ll come around and talk to you again eventually. :)

so my friend just told me that she only acts dumb because i wouldn't be alone. idk if i should be offended my this?

Fri, 08 Feb 2013 18:29:55 -0800

Just shrug it off. If she makes remarks like that all the time and doesn’t apologize for it, maybe you need to talk to her about it. :)

My bestfriend and I are drifting, but I don't really mind. I mean basically the other night on the phone she told me that she is getting tired of me...I don't really know how to take that..We went through a thing where she wouldn't talk to me cause she was going through depression. I have always been here, but now I just don't know what to do. I don't feel like I would miss her if we weren't friends anymore. Should I just slowly drift?

Fri, 08 Feb 2013 18:24:28 -0800

If she was truly your friend, you would fight for her. Try to see what’s wrong and try to fix it. If not, just let it go. Change is good sometimes. :)

How can i be happier in 2013?

Fri, 08 Feb 2013 18:23:41 -0800

Don’t worry so much. Follow your dreams. Ignore people who give you crap in your life. Do something that makes you feel good. Don’t let relationships or other people get you down. Share memories with people you love and never give up. Most of all, just let all your worries go and be happy c:

I sweat alot on my foregead & its always very oily/greasy, could you reccomend any products?x

Sat, 29 Dec 2012 11:17:57 -0800

No products! Those are usually the ones that make it more oily or give you more acne. Just take a rag, rub some soap into the rag (really really hard so that there’s a lot of soap on the rag), and scrub your face really really hard. Then rinse. Your face will be oil free and shine free on the spot. Keep doing this everyday and you’ll be oil/grease free. c: