Anonymous asked: Well my mom isn't supporting me with what I want to do with my life whenever I mention it she tells me there's no jobs for that here. Not only that but everyones been bringing me down saying mean things. Idk what to do.

Prove them wrong. Maybe the job you want isn’t in your area, therefore you have to go somewhere else to look for what you want. Sometimes you’ll have to chase your goals but that just makes it 10x more satisfying when you achieve them. 

Anonymous asked: I know this may sound stupid, I am 10 years older than my little brother, lately he has been getting ALL the attention. Today he hit me in the face with a water bottle, and I got introuble. And my parents barely say a word to me all day. I'm so emotionally wrecked I feel like I have no friends in this house.Or someone to talk too or someone to take me seriously.

Don’t worry. If you keep working hard and showing your parents that you appreciate everything they buy you, putting a roof over your head and taking care of you then they will start paying a little more attention to you. Younger kids do need more attention and do get away with things, but it doesn’t mean your parents hate you or don’t love you. Just stick it out :)

Anonymous asked: Hi. My family hates me. like dead ass. For no reason. I do everything I can for them and they're all literally not thankful for me, and i'm basically just a floor mat for them to step all over when they're upset. Like, my sister locked me out in the snow for two hours, and I got in trouble for yelling at her about it and i was grounded. She had not said ONE WORD to my sister. I feel like just giving up on life, idek. i don't give a shit anymore.

I know times suck and you feel like no one loves you but they do. Your family does love you even if they don’t show it. Just tell them you feel like they don’t appreciate you like they should and it really hurts. They shouldn’t deny you love. If they didn’t care about you they wouldn’t even have had you in the first place. Just talk to them (:

Anonymous asked: my parents always say im a computer junky. you know im often on the computer but not THAT much. most of the time im reading fanfics there so im doing something useful. but they just dont understand it. they take it away from me and now they want to install something where they can controll it and just shut it down when they want to. i hate that! seriously there are people out there who are much more on the pc than me and its not like im playing dumb games where i kill 1000 people..

Then just tell them you want to enjoy reading on the internet cause you finish your homework and stuff and you’re bored. You just need something to do. d:

Anonymous asked: My parents are fighting ... I dunno what to do but cry ... I'm scared ... Plus , it's my mom's birthday ... </3 ... please help...

Just ask them to stop. If they care about you enough they will stop fighting because you don’t like it 

Anonymous asked: My mom and I are fighting a lot with each other right now. She just gets on my nerves! I'm not eating healthy at the moment and there are days were I eat almost nothing and some where I eat little bit. Well, if I eat nothing my mom yelles at me I'm anorexic and if I eat something she yelles at me that I'm always eating.. she always takes my laptop away and hates it when I'm at home all day but if I'm away all day she hates it too! What should I do? I really hate it!!

Just  tell her you are hurt and you just need some comfort from her. Because she is so harsh on you, you just stop eating probably. Just talk to her about it and don’t yell. Just calmly tell her how you feel. 

Anonymous asked: Hi :) I hope you don't mind helping me out a bit. Well.. I'm a girl and bisexual, my close friends now know and support me which is great :) But then there's my parents.. From what I know they're not too fond of bi's, gays ect. partly because of my religion and I'm worried about telling them that I'm bi :/ I know that sooner or later I'll either tell them or they find out and I'm not sure on how they're going to react.

Then sit them down, say it as calmly as you can and don’t argue with them. Just tell them straight out and then ask them kindly to support you in your sexuality. And that’s all you can really say. :)

Anonymous asked: My brother and my boyfriend got into a fight with my boyfriend because he is abusive. I am afraid to break up with him because I don't want the beating to get worse. He always tells me it is my fault and I deserve it and sometimes I do stuff to get him mad and I do deserve it. I really do love him but my brother wants me to break up with him. What should I do?

You tell your boyfriend abusive relationship can cause major consequences and if he continues, send him to the police. Because there is no way in heaven or hell that hitting his own girlfriend is right. No matter what you do to get him mad, he has NO right to lay a finger on you. Next time he hits you, you tell him to stop or you’re turning him in. You do not deserve that treatment, no matter how much you love him. It should not be tolerated.  

Anonymous asked: So my mom left me and my two brothers right after my younger one was born, and now she wants me back in her life, and she wants me in my little brothers life. But I don't want to be because she put our Dad and us through so much, and she wants to maybe get custody of us and take us away from my dad who only has us. And I don't think its far because she has another husband and another son now, and idk how to tell her that.

Just tell her the nicest way you can. She is your mom, she deserves the truth to your pain. Don’t hold it in. Just tell her. Then tell your dad to fight for your custody as much as possible so you don’t have to be miserable anymore. 

Anonymous asked: I got a twin sister, and we're very identical.. But we're very different! I describe us like your story, "Optimist and Pessimist". She is like very popular and boys likes her! While, me her loser twin. Skatergirl. bestfriends 2 guys.. :( And she bullies me.. But she's dating one of my bestfriends.. and I like that person. :( She's pulling him apart from me. I want him.. I feel ugly,, she makes me insecure!

Well you are beautiful. Your personality shows it. So you have to pull it by the reins and tell her that it’s not right to bully you. And to stop stealing your best friends cause that’s what makes you feel wanted. Tell her how you feel.