Anonymous asked: (C) Sarah are using my friend Becky. I don't. I NEVER used people in my life. You know what? she uses becky for her math homeworks. every single day, she asks becky too do her homework. who's using becky now? Now i just can't do it anymore people are being hypocrites. i just can't handle my life anymore ithink im annoying them i already lost a friend because i was joking around and she took it seriously and now she talks to my "friend". that "friend" keeps talking shit about her everyday

Talk to the friend that thinks you’re using her and tell her what’s going on. Tell her other friends that they all have it wrong. Try not to start any more drama, if possible. Just calmly talk to them. Once you start flipping out, they’ll start flipping out. 

Anonymous asked: Hi honey. How are you? Well.. you know, I have known my best friend for 4 years now and I love him to death but a year ago or something, he told me he was in love with me. Okay, so I thought that was the cutest thing ever, but the thing is.. I don't feel the same. I mean.. I LOVE HIM TO PIECES. But.. not that way. I told him that and everything's was fine, but I could know that he was hurted in some way. And I don't know what to do.

Well there’s nothing much you can do. It’s said and done. But you can keep acting like you’re best friends so he doesn’t feel like you’re completely outing him out. You just don’t feel that way. Tell him you love him but as a best friend, not a boyfriend and if you act like you normally would and pretend he didn’t tell you he had feelings for you, things will eventually go back to normal and he’ll get over it :)

Anonymous asked: I have a friend. She can be a true friend but the majority of the time she's downright bossy and rude. I don't know how to tell her to stop without offending her. Help please?

Just tell her in the most nice, casual way possible. Say it jokingly in a way. Not harsh. Just tell her that you appreciate her wanting to take charge and stating her opinion is fine, but she doesn’t have to be so rude or hurtful about it. Tell her that you are your own person and you can make your own decisions and she doesn’t need to push you so hard. That’s what I would say :)

Anonymous asked: me and my friend always argue about trusting eachother what should i do? /:

Trust is very hard to have in a person and it’s hard to prove that you have it for each other. 

But the lesson I learned is that, if you want a person to trust you, you obviously can’t go behind their back and lie to them. You also have to prove that you can trust them, by telling them your secrets/problems whenever you need them. 

That’s usually what helps people trust each other. :)

Anonymous asked: you guys remember tyler? well at the moment i think were no longer friends but i really want to be friends with him again and every time i apologize for the shit i caused he just ignores it (ive only tried once). i feel really bad and i want to be friends with him. HELP ME BE FRIENDS WITH HIM AGAIN!

Do you apologize in person or over text? Apologize in person so that way he can’t ignore you. Give him some space for a while and maybe try working on it again later. (:

Anonymous asked: Hey It's the same person with the Best Friend problem. But no I really don't know why she's been ignoring me, I've tried to tell her how I've been feeling but everytime I do their's always an interruption. I miss her like crazy I don't know what to do :/ Sometimes I just cry about it because unlike my other friends I thought she was different and she made a big impact in my life. I really need some advice! Also I need some conversation starters when I'm trying to talk to her :(

Talk with her one on one. Have her go over to your house. Do everything in your power to let her know how you feel, without yelling/raising your voice at her of course. The conversation should really just flow, but you can start off with things such as:

“I feel as though things have changed a lot recently between us.”

“Are you okay? Has something been going on?” (Because it may not be you, something could be going on in her personal life.)

Anonymous asked: I really miss my best friend. I see her every once in a while but when we do we either ignore each other or I annoy her. I don't know what to do anymore. I really want us to be like we once were in the past. But how can I regain her trust and have her in my life again? I don't want to lose her because she made a great impact in my life. So can you help me out here? Cause I really need her back she's like a sister to me :/

Do you know why she’s ignoring you? Just talk to her and tell her how you’re feeling. I’m sure she wants to work things out with you, but you guys have to talk it out first and voice your feelings. (: 

Anonymous asked: i have a friend named amanda. we used to be friends last year cause we're in the same class. so now i didn't in the same class with her again and she keep ignoring me and when i stand beside her, she dont wanna look at my face. She always be with her 'fake' friends. such as lisa etc. I'm so sad because she doesn't wanna be friends with me anymore. what should i do

If she’s acting this way with you then she shouldn’t be your friend. You’ll make a lot of new friends in your new classes. But cheer up! You’ll make plenty of awesome new friends. (:

Anonymous asked: ok well my friend is like really nice but since summer started she has been telling me that i should date her boyfriends friend and i tell her that i dont want to date him she says that im scared,i just dont want to date him because me and her are going to high school and he and her bf are going to 8th grade because they flunked.i want to date someone that i go to school with.i told her but she still keeps telling what should i do.. shes getting annoying and i feel like weve been drifting apart

Well if she’s not going to listen then just ignore her commands. When you go into high school, find a guy and show her that you’re not interested in her boyfriend’s friend. She can’t force you into dating someone you don’t want to date and you shouldn’t listen to that. So if she doesn’t take no for an answer, she doesn’t deserve any answer at all. So just try not to egg her on anymore. 

Anonymous asked: so i dont like this one guy who always disturb me and keep saying 'i love you' to me. at first i hate it and it was hella annoying but now, when i find out that my friend have a crush on that guy, i feel jealous. I dont know why. I feel like she's stealing him from me. what should i do

Well if you like him then tell him! Try to talk to him more and see if you can be with him. But if you don’t want to do that, then just try to move on from it since you didn’t really wanna be with him in the first place.