Anonymous asked: i feel that i'll fail in everything i do, i feel sad, i feel alone, i just want to sleep all day, i don't want to go to school, i feel like crying at everything, i feel like nobody cares about me. do you think i'm suffering from depression?

I care about you.  :)

I honestly don’t know what’s considered depression because I am not a doctor or psychiatrist. But if you’re feeling down, start doing things that make you happy. Sometimes it’s justt hormones and a lot of teenagers feel this way. But you’re not alone. Everyone goes through it at some point. Just keep your head up and don’t think too much about the negative. Put some positive in your life and you’ll start thinking happy in no time :)

Anonymous asked: Basically i'm 17 years old and i've never had a boyfriend or kissed a guy for that matter, I'm not awkward around guys or shy in any way, loud and usually quite confident infact it's just as soon as a guy pays attention to me in case of anything more than good friends i freak out and avoid any situation, I always do this, even guys that I like that as soon as they like me back I freak out and just don't speak to them:/ why is this? I hate it so much it's just awkward? Any advice please :(

I guess your mind is just telling you not to get hurt and it’s kind of like a reflex for you so you just stop talking to them or you don’t want them to like you back because you don’t want to fail at the relationship.

Just stop worrying about it so much! Guys don’t like it when girls freak out over them. They like cool and collected. So just tell yourself, when a guy likes you try to see if you can keep calm and maybe hang out with them or try to talk to them more so you feel more comfortable. If you keep running away, you’ll just disappoint yourself. So just don’t freak yourself out :)

Anonymous asked: Do you have any tips on how I can become more confident? Just in general really, I describe myself as shy and GREATLY lacking in confidence. I'm constantly putting myself down even though I don't mean to. I would like to overcome that. Also, any tips on how to make friends, or a good first impression? I'm going into grade 10 at a new school so y'know. ;o thank you very much (:

Mm just try not to think about what other people think of you, like not wanting to embarrass yourself and stuff, be yourself, open up to anyone around you, be friendly and yeah. Just practice in front of the mirror before you start the day. Mm just be friendly! Be outgoing and don’t be afraid to make random conversation now and again :)

Anonymous asked: i don't like my body or anything about myself so i'm changing so that i can be better this school year. i just want more friends and to be more outgoing, but it's really hard..

You don’t have to put yourself down just because you have a certain flaw here or there. It’s what makes us, us! It’s what makes us beautiful in our own way. It’s good to change but don’t change EVERYTHING about yourself, or there wouldn’t be anything left of yourself. Just remember that you are amazing just the way you are and people like you, for you :)

Anonymous asked: do you think a change in hair color would somehow also change the way you act? because i heard more daring colors make you more outgoing. do you think its true or it's just all in the person's head?

Well it is all in the person’s head, but a certain hair color the individual likes can make a person more confident in themselves. For me, I become more confident with light brown or dark black/blue hair because people compliment me most when I have those colors. So it just depends on what color the person likes. 

Anonymous asked: any tips on how i can become less shy around people? mainly guys? i never know what to say and i just end up sounding like i'm mean and i don't want them thinking that :c

Well guys are usuallyy mean to each other anyway so they would probably think it’s cute if you were trying to be mean or a little aggressive. Just don’t insult them all the time d: 

Try to be yourself around them. Guys hate drama and couldn’t care less about girl problems. They like to have a good time and just be crazy with each other. So try to act like they’re your best friends and just be loose around them. Be confident, guys like that :)

Anonymous asked: I always feel ugly, worthless and fat. I tried to diet but failed, now I'm kinda serious on my diet cause it hurts to feel the ugliest of your friends. I always get the feeling that no one loves me even my own family. I'm always being ignored by guys. I've been bullied lots in school last year which made me more less confident and I tried to suicide. I'm so insecure even when I'm like talking, walking, I feel like I'm doing it wrong. I always wonder why good people get hurt. Thats just sad

You are beautiful. You shouldn’t worry about all of this. You are so young and full of potential. You don’t need to worry about what you look like or how you talk. It’s what makes you, you! And that should be enough to be grateful for even being alive. Just please, look in the mirror and tell yourself that you’re beautiful. Because you deserve to smile and be happy about yourself. Stop thinking negative and be happy you’re alive and beautiful :)

Anonymous asked: Everyone says that I'm good at singing and that I should start to audition in places but I'm too shy..

Don’t worry, I was really shy too when I first started. But you’ll definitely get over it once you start singing all the time in front of people! :)

Just try not to think of the people that are there in front of you. Imagine they’re not there and that you’re alone, in your room or wherever you’re comfortable singing. Be confident and once you start getting comfortable singing in front of people, you won’t be so nervous and you’ll get better . :)

Anonymous asked: all my friends are really pretty and get guys' attention while i'm being ignored a lot by the guys. i feel so ugly and unwanted because i don't have many guy friends. my friends say i'm pretty but i just dont believe it.

Well I believe it. You need self confidence. It’s what makes everyone beautiful in their own way. If you believe you’re good enough, it’s cause you are! :)

Don’t put yourself down and just cause guys don’t notice you now doesn’t mean they won’t notice you later. You just have to show off your confidence and show guys that you’re better off without them. If you show them you can make yourself awesome, they’ll notice and eventually will give you the attention you deserve :)

Anonymous asked: im so insecure its like unhealthy. i feel insecure about every little thing! even when i raise my hand in class i feel like i raise it wrong! the way i talk, laugh, walk, look, smile, everything! it has gotten that bad! how can i boost up my confidence cause i am so fucking annoyed that im like this.

First off, take a deep breath. Second, go look in your mirror and just count all your flaws. Count every single flaw you think you have. Once you have the total number, times it by 10. (so if you counted 10 flaws you’d have a total of 100)
Now say ‘I love myself unconditionally’ as many times as you counted your number which you timed by ten. Say that until you’re done. Keep doing that every day until you smile at yourself, because you’re an amazing human being. And we all have flaws. No one is perfect, so there is no reason why you should be putting yourself down. Love yourself for who you are (: